Every 10 seconds in
America, someone reports
to the authorities that they
believe a child is being
abused. That's a staggering
amount — and yet the
professionals who help
these children believe the
actual incidence of abuse
and neglect in our country is
three times higher than
what's reported. Take a
stand: Learn the signs of
child abuse and neglect.
Find out how to make a
report. And discover the
ways you can volunteer with
and donate to the
organizations that help the
children who cannot help
themselves. When you help
to save a child, you do more
than save that child today.
You save the future.
America, someone reports
to the authorities that they
believe a child is being
abused. That's a staggering
amount — and yet the
professionals who help
these children believe the
actual incidence of abuse
and neglect in our country is
three times higher than
what's reported. Take a
stand: Learn the signs of
child abuse and neglect.
Find out how to make a
report. And discover the
ways you can volunteer with
and donate to the
organizations that help the
children who cannot help
themselves. When you help
to save a child, you do more
than save that child today.
You save the future.
How Can I Help?
| First Light Child Advocacy Center of Grant County |
Here are some suggestions for preventing victimization of children:
For more information on your responsibility of preventing and reporting abuse click on the
following link: Child Abuse Prevention: Roles and Responsibilities
 | Teach kids the correct names of body parts. This will help them communicate | |
| more clearly with trusted adults about touching problems. | ||
| Children should be taught not to let older people kiss them, hold them, touch them, | |
| or make them touch others in ways that make the Child feel uncomfortable. Cautioning children, "Don't let anyone touch you," is simply not adequate. They need concrete suggestions, and role-playing ("what would you do if...?") can be helpful. And as children get older, they need increasingly detailed information. | ||
| Teach children to report any touch, action, or talk that feels uncomfortable - no | |
| matter who the source is, or how close the relationship. This applies to all kinds of touch, including hitting and bullying. It is important to teach youngsters to be wary of strangers, BUT: the vast majority of victims are molested by adults or older kids whom they know, trust, and - in many cases - love. | ||
| Kids should be taught never to keep bad secrets. These are often secrets that will | |
| get grown-ups or older kids in trouble if they are discovered or told. Bad secrets might involve stealing, lying, breaking rules - or inappropriate sexual touching. Good secrets are usually surprises, like presents or parties, which will make other people happy when they become known. | ||
| Make sure children know which adults can be trusted and to whom they should go if | |
| they have questions or concerns (for example, parents, teachers, school counselors, police). And make sure kids know that telling bad secrets is NOT the same as tattling. | ||
| Let your children know that they are loved unconditionally. No matter what they do | |
| or what is done to them, they need to know that you will love them just the same. You know that, but they need to HEAR it - and OFTEN. Many kids don't tell about sexual abuse because they're afraid that family members will think them bad or unlovable because they "let" the abuse happen. Help them understand that it is not their fault. | ||
| If your child discloses abuse, believe him or her and immediately report the abuse | |
| to the police or your local Department of Family and Children Services. Then get help for your child and for yourself. |
For more information on your responsibility of preventing and reporting abuse click on the
following link: Child Abuse Prevention: Roles and Responsibilities
Prevention
Prevent Child Abuse, Grant County (PCA) is just one of the several statewide
network chartered councils representing Prevent Child Abuse Indiana. PCA Grant County
has several functions dedicated to the prevention of abuse and neglect of children.
Newsletters are just part of that function, along with community education. PCA Grant
County also offers the opportunity from time to time for the application of mini-grants for
programs dedicated to the betterment of children.
If you are interested in becoming a prevention partner of Prevent Child Abuse Grant
County or volunteer opportunities to help stop the abuse of children, please contact us for
additional information.
If you are interested in becoming a member of the local Council, please contact either
Connie Rose at 765-662-9971 or Janet Bailey at 765-668-8082 for further information.
Our local Council meets at the Marion Public Library on the 2nd Thursday of the month
at noon, please feel free to bring your lunch as well! We'd love to have you join us!
Check out the website for Prevent Child Abuse Indiana www.preventchildabuse.org or
www.pcain.org
network chartered councils representing Prevent Child Abuse Indiana. PCA Grant County
has several functions dedicated to the prevention of abuse and neglect of children.
Newsletters are just part of that function, along with community education. PCA Grant
County also offers the opportunity from time to time for the application of mini-grants for
programs dedicated to the betterment of children.
If you are interested in becoming a prevention partner of Prevent Child Abuse Grant
County or volunteer opportunities to help stop the abuse of children, please contact us for
additional information.
If you are interested in becoming a member of the local Council, please contact either
Connie Rose at 765-662-9971 or Janet Bailey at 765-668-8082 for further information.
Our local Council meets at the Marion Public Library on the 2nd Thursday of the month
at noon, please feel free to bring your lunch as well! We'd love to have you join us!
Check out the website for Prevent Child Abuse Indiana www.preventchildabuse.org or
www.pcain.org
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Use caution in discussing the allegations with your child. Repeatedly approaching the
topic may cause your child to shut you and others out rather than feel like he or she can
open up. However, if he or she brings up the subject and needs to discus it, you should
listen and respond supportively.
Your child needs to me assured that it was not his or her fault.
Other things you can say that will help your child:
• I believe you.
• I’m so proud that you told; that was a brave thing to do.
• I’m so sorry this happened to you.
• I’m upset, but not at you.
• I am angry at the person who did this.
• You are not to blame for anything.
Some things you can do:
• Return to a normal routine as soon as possible.
• See that your child receives therapy as soon as possible.
• Teach your child the rules of personal safety. Tell them what to do if someone tries
to touch them in an uncomfortable way.
• Never coach or advise your child on how to act or what to say to professionals or
investigators. This could seriously damage the case and confuse or upset your child.
• Have NO contact with the suspect.
• Understand your child’s needs or unusual requests for physical closeness to you.
• Prepare the child for what may happen since he or she told about the abuse.
• Do not promise the child that he or she will never have anything bad happen to them
again.
topic may cause your child to shut you and others out rather than feel like he or she can
open up. However, if he or she brings up the subject and needs to discus it, you should
listen and respond supportively.
Your child needs to me assured that it was not his or her fault.
Other things you can say that will help your child:
• I believe you.
• I’m so proud that you told; that was a brave thing to do.
• I’m so sorry this happened to you.
• I’m upset, but not at you.
• I am angry at the person who did this.
• You are not to blame for anything.
Some things you can do:
• Return to a normal routine as soon as possible.
• See that your child receives therapy as soon as possible.
• Teach your child the rules of personal safety. Tell them what to do if someone tries
to touch them in an uncomfortable way.
• Never coach or advise your child on how to act or what to say to professionals or
investigators. This could seriously damage the case and confuse or upset your child.
• Have NO contact with the suspect.
• Understand your child’s needs or unusual requests for physical closeness to you.
• Prepare the child for what may happen since he or she told about the abuse.
• Do not promise the child that he or she will never have anything bad happen to them
again.
How to Best Help Your Child
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First Light is always in need of several things and one of those is
volunteers. If you would like to volunteer please contact us.
volunteers. If you would like to volunteer please contact us.